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Oops, You Drank the Sleep Training Kool-Aid (and so did I): Sleep Training Myths
Sleep training culture is pervasive. If any of these thoughts have crossed your mind during your parenting journey, you've been impacted by sleep training culture.
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Sep 175 min read


The Racial History of Sleep Training: Why We Need to Talk About It
Sleep training is rooted in white, Western ideals—not biology. Here’s why responsiveness isn’t a flaw and why your instincts matter.
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Sep 104 min read


Why ‘Teaching Independent Sleep’ Is Baby Sleep BS (And What Actually Builds Independent Sleep Over Time)
You’ve been told babies need to be “taught” to sleep - but what if everything you’ve heard about independent sleep is wrong?
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Apr 103 min read


Bedsharing Safety: Common Hazards You May Have Missed
Bedsharing safety education is paramount because besharing happens! (quite often!)
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Feb 243 min read


Ditch The “Rules” - 7 Ways to Improve Your Baby Or Toddler’s Sleep Without Sleep Training
7 gentle, responsive tips to improve your baby’s sleep—no sleep training needed. Support their rhythms, adjust setups, and follow their cues
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Jan 274 min read


Baby Sleep Cycles: Newborn Sleep, the 4-Month Progression, and Beyond
Baby sleep cycles are not like ours. Learn the stages they go through, specifically in the newborn and 4 month 'regression'.
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Dec 18, 20243 min read


Red Flags For Baby Sleep + When You Should Get Support
Generally, babies are sleep quite normally. But sometimes, there are underlying red flags (feeding or medical issues) that may be impacting
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Sep 16, 20243 min read


Early Rising: Why Is My Baby Waking Up SO Early?
Early rising is a common topic that comes up when discussing baby sleep. Learn why it's happening and practical tips for troubleshooting.
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Jul 27, 20245 min read


Understanding Split Nights - Why Your Baby Is Up for Hours and How to Cope
Understanding the midnight party (AKA Split Nights) and what you can do to troubleshoot
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May 31, 20245 min read


Understanding catnaps: Should we rethink the negativity around short daytime naps?
While catnaps are normal and common, especially between the ages of 2 to 6 months, they tend to get a bad name in the sleep industry...
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May 9, 20244 min read


Is a Floor Bed Right for Your Baby or Toddler?
Considerations, Safety & How-To So, you’re considering a floor bed... If you're contemplating transitioning your baby or toddler to a...
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Apr 15, 20245 min read


The Perfect Baby Sleep Schedule
What's the perfect baby sleep schedule? Learn how to figure this out for your baby and family.
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Mar 8, 20245 min read


Newborn sleep patterns - what's behind your baby's sleep behaviours
Congratulations on your new baby! Now, let's learn about newborn sleep patterns and behaviours.
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Oct 12, 20235 min read


Debunking misconceptions: The power of responsive parenting + Gentle night-time parenting techniques
Is gentle sleep training the same as gentle night-time parenting techniques? Gentle sleep training is still just sleep training...
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Aug 21, 20236 min read


The sleep training methods that did not work for my baby (and what we did instead)
As a sleep-deprived and bewildered caregiver, I once hopped on the train to sleep training success. Oh, how I needed to believe in the...
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Aug 7, 20238 min read


Mental Health in Mothers: Parent and Infant Needs Are Not A Zero Sum Game
Mental health in mothers and in babies - It's not one or the other!
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Mar 24, 20235 min read


What Does 'Normal Infant Sleep' Even Mean?
Is your baby's sleep normal? Learn about normal baby sleep totals and patterns
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Feb 10, 20238 min read


Four Sleep Training Claims - Myth or Fact?
The sleep training industry makes lots of claims. In this post, we'll debunk 4 of the most popular claims.
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Sep 27, 202212 min read


Before Considering Night Weaning, Let's Count the Night-time Nurture Benefits
The benefits and reasons to keep responding to your baby day and night
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Dec 17, 20214 min read


“Gentle” Sleep Training: Perfect Solution or Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing?
Are "gentle" sleep training methods better for you and your baby - are wolf in sheep's clothing?
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Dec 2, 20219 min read
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